I have a 7 years old nephew, who can use the Internet perfectly. He can find cartoon videos on YouTube and play video games online. But, when my little nephew saw a VHS videotape some months ago, he asked me amazed and surprised: ”Uncle! What is this thing?!”. At first I was a bit shocked, but then, I realized that the times have changed a lot, especially during this last decades. We are living the Mass Media development.
This development is called ”Revolution”. When an important new technology appear, it destabilize the existing media industries. Therefore, large corporations based in old technologies fail, and the upstart companies reap enormous profits. And I would apply this development, based on cutthroat competition, on Social Networks.
Some years ago, MySpace appeared, and everybody was exciting with this new way to be connected and sharing experiences. But then, something new appeared: FaceBook. Why Facebook succeeded? Basically, because is more private than MySpace, and while MySpace is more for youngsters, Facebook is for people of all ages. Also, facebook has an easier usage and people can mix their personal and professional profiles. Nevertheless, we saw another media development, another revolution, when Twitter appeared few years ago. I think we prefer Twitter because it is easier to use, and because we can just post little sentences, simple emotions that we feel in a concrete moment. Finally, I think that soon will appear another trendy social network that will shake the world.
My conclusion is that new media industries do specialize in giving people what they want, and this is the reason of the development, the cause of so much competition between technology companies, and the reason of why my nephew doesn’t know the VHS videotapes.
Today, more than ever, the technologies occupy a very important place in our lives. We use the technology all the time and we are trying to be connected all the time, by social networks like Twitter, Facebook or just by texting. This is the result of an evolution, because some years ago we would find the devices that we use disturbing, but now they are part of our normal life.
Turkle used the exploration research in order to investigate a social phenomena by studying the technologies of mobile communication. She interviewed hundreds of people, young and old, about them virtual lives using the Qualitative Method in order to develop an authentic understanding of this social process.
Her conclusion was that all this devices are so psychologically powerful that they do not only change the things we do, but also change WHO WE ARE. Why we are saying that? Because today we usually see how some teenager are together, but they actually are not together. They are just abstracted, faraway.
I think this is a real problem in nowadays society, because, as Turkle said, it is a trouble in how we relate to each other and how we relate to ourselves. She said too that this is destroying our capacity for self-reflection. However, I thing that this is not always true. The fact that we have Twitter and Facebook account doesn’t mean that we are loosing our capacity for self-reflection. We can control the time that we spend in the social networks. We hang out with some friends and we like to talk face-to-face.
On the other hand, by an Explanatory research Turkle discovered the ”Goldenloks effect”: Not too close, Not too far, just Right.
But what is just right for an executive, is not for a teenager, who need to develop face-to-face relationships. And it could be a problem for a teenager who don’t have the capacity to control the time that he or she spends on social networks. Then, I think at this moment is very important the role that the parents have. They have to control this and teach them how to keep a real conversation.
Another problem that Turkle mentioned and is interesting is the fact that is difficult to have a real conversation if the other person is not listening. Therefore, social networks are like automatic listeners that offer three gratifying fantasies: 1) we can put our attention wherever we want it to be, 2) we will always be heard, and 3) we will never have to be alone. That last one is interesting because people think that being alone is a problem that we have to solve quickly, and we do it just connecting with more and more people.
At last, I have found interesting the process of getting from connection to isolation. Is interesting that we will be isolated if we don’t have the ability to be separated, to gather ourselves. If we don’t have that capacity, we turn to other people in order to feel less anxious. Nowadays, a lot of people think that if we are not connected, we will feel ourselves less alone. But it is the opposite! If we are not able to be alone, we are going to be more lonely.
For conclusion, I think that technologies are very useful nowadays. They bring us security and make our lives easier. But the things is that we have to use them properly and put them in the correct place in our life. Being balanced, that is the secret. Because, after all, nothing is more enjoyable than taking a Coke and chatting with a couple of good friends in a pub.